Our youngest son is going to be 10 in September. Being a
kid, he has been thinking about and planning for his birthday since just after
Christmas. Oh, who are we kidding? He’s
probably been thinking about it since about 10 minutes after his last birthday party
ended.
But he started speaking about it to ME after Christmas.
Being 9, his birthday wishes changed at least once a week. “I would like this!”
“I would like that!”. I waited it out, knowing that eventually he would
solidify his plans on his own.
Like his mama, he is a big lover of music. He even has a favourite band- Great Big Sea. A few months ago, he told
me that what he’d really like the very most in the whoooooollle wide world for
his birthday was to go to a Great Big Sea concert.
In the interests of wish fulfillment, I looked into where
they might be playing in and around his birthday. Sadly, their only posted gig for my timeframe
was in August, in Newfoundland. Now believe me, this would *not* be a personal
hardship to have to travel to Newfoundland, along with my son, in order to take
him to see his favourite band ... Financially, however, that is another matter.
Driving is too complicated, and flights are rather expensive (for about $300 more,
I could take both of us to Ireland. This would not Go Down Well with the other
Minions of Chaos, Not At All).
:sigh: But then came a concert
announcement from livenation. Alan
Doyle, a member of Great Big Sea, was going on tour to promote his début solo
album: “Boy on Bridge”. And there was a date local to us, as well, although it
wasn’t anywhere near his birthday.
After some discussions back and forth with the Littlest Man and Himself, it was
agreed that this was a pretty decent substitute for the desired concert (there
went my personal hope for the trip to The Rock, alas).
Tickets were purchased, and the excitement and countdown
began.
The concert was last night, and he showed remarkable
self-restraint in only calling me at work once yesterday ... “What time are you
coming home, and when are we going to the concert?” was what I heard through
the phone line after I said “Hello?”.
As it happened, I got home from work with just enough time
to quickly change my clothes, grab the tickets, and grab him. The concert was
being held downtown and the doors were set to open at 7PM, so I didn’t want to
be cutting our time too fine, in case we had difficulties finding parking
nearby. I ended up finding parking in a
parkade one block west of the venue, which I thought was pretty decent.
It was precisely at the moment that we exited the parkade
that the rain changed from the light drizzle it had been all day into a
near-torrential downpour. I’m really not exaggerating here, the streets went
from looking shiny from the water, to having puddles stretching half-way across
the road.
We didn’t have an umbrella, nor were we wearing raincoats. I covered Boo as
best as I could with my hoodie, and we did our best to hop over the
puddles. By the time we got to the
shelter of the canopy, we were both pretty drenched. One helpful fellow, at the
head of the line, offered us his umbrella (haha, very funny!). We managed to
just fit under the end of the canopy, and people who came after us, basically
huddled beside us, rather than standing in the wet ...
Not exactly sure how long we had to wait in line, but it
probably wasn’t more than 10 minutes or so, and while we were wet, and now cold, too, we
were both content to stand and smile at our fellow concert-goers. Everyone
watched and cheered (jeered?) loudly at a person’s efforts to parallel park
their car in a rather tight spot across the street. They definitely bumped the
car behind them, at least twice. The clapping and cheering that ensued gave me
reason to believe this wasn’t the first car to attempt to part in this spot,
and that said attempts had been the pre-show entertainment for those people who
were ahead of us in line (who had probably been waiting an hour).
Before too long, the doors to the hall were opened, and we
were able to go inside (and attempt to dry off). Since we’d been rushing to get out the door,
Boo was hungry, so we got into the line for the canteen in the hopes of
securing a snack to tide him over. While we were waiting in line, a man
approached asking if anyone in the line-up would like a copy of Alan’s CD.
Several people, including both myself and the Littlest Man, said “Yes” (I mean,
DUH!). He handed a copy to the guy waiting behind us, and another copy to
Boo.
And to think I’d assumed he was selling them, and was about
to ask him how much they were ...
So by this point, Boo was completely over being wet. After
all, he just got a Slush Puppy, a chocolate bar, AND a Free CD! I quietly pointed out to him that things like
that don’t normally happen at a concert, fearing his expectations be put way
out of whack by this awesome, yet rare, occurrence ...
He shrugged.
We went into the hall itself to find seats (the tickets said
it was “rush seating”- another reason to get there early). The hall used to be
a movie theatre, you would enter from under the upper level seats, and the
front section was divided from the upper section by an aisle way with a low
wall on either side. This was still the basic set-up, only the seats from the
lower section have been removed, and for the concert, several round tables had
been set up around the edges, with a large area in front of the stage for
standing and/or dancing. There didn’t appear to be any tables with spots open,
and looking up into the seats, most of the open seats were so far back as to be
unsuitable for a small-ish boy to enjoy his first concert, so I suggested to
him that we stand up front, instead.
He was reluctant to do this at first, telling me he wanted
“to sit to be able to enjoy the concert”, but I pointed out that the free seats
in the upper level were pretty far back, and he might not be able to see over
other people’s heads. I said “Why don’t we stand up here for now, and decide
later?”.
We ended up standing right in front of the stage, off to our
left (which I believe is considered “Stage Right” in theatre terms- but it’s
been awhile). Thankfully, we weren’t right in front of the speakers, but we
were pretty close ... Boo ran back to the lobby a time or two to get more
snacks, and to see if there was a Swag table set up.
Otherwise, we passed the time looking at the instruments on
stage- Boo recognized the Yamaha symbol on the drum set, and we mused over
whether or not two of the guitars in the guitar rack (there were 4 or 5!) were Takamine guitars (same brand as his guitar
teacher). (they were, btw- this boy is definitely his Mama’s kid). Boo was
getting restless, wondering when the show was going to start, so I took the time
to explain to him that there would be an opening act prior to Alan hitting the
stage, and after he asked, explained why there was such a thing as an opening
act.
The opening act, Dustin
Bentall, hit the stage at about 8PM. Boo was transfixed. It was a great
set, and at the end of it, Dustin mentioned he’d be selling CD’s in the lobby
after his set. He had two available, and we bought one of each, which he signed
for us, personalizing one specifically for Boo.
This concert stuff’s looking pretty good to him now, let me
tell you. I’m starting to wonder how anything else he goes to after this will
hold up ...
Before we knew it, it was time to go back in for Alan’s set.
We resumed our “seats” by the stage, and from our vantage point, we caught a
glimpse of his musical hero before he took to the stage.
He had a blast. I had been slightly worried he’d be
disappointed, not knowing too many of the songs, but he wasn’t. He danced a
little (I think he was worried about looking too silly in front of Mr Doyle),
he clapped a lot, he shouted “Whoo hoo!” as appropriate ... All in all, a
fantastic set.
He got confused when Kris MacFarlane, who he recognized as
the drummer from Great Big Sea, came to the front of the stage where we were
standing and offered him his hand. By the time he got over being star-struck,
Kris had given up on the handshake, and offered him his drumsticks, instead!
The band left the stage, and the audience started shouting
and clapping- I explained the concept of an Encore- and then he got right into
that, too. (But he was still awestruck over the drumsticks in his hand).
Of course, the band came back on for an encore, and during
their encore set, they called Dustin to come up and play with them. It was
during this song that Mr Doyle himself came up to the front of the stage where
we were and gave Boo the guitar pick he was using for his mandolin ... (in case
you’ve lost track, he has now received: one free Alan Doyle CD, two signed
Dustin Bentall CDs, a pair of drumsticks *and* a guitar pick).
After the show, Alan came out to the lobby to meet his fans,
sign CDs and get his picture taken with people, etc. (Alas, we did not bring
the camera- ARGH!) Boo went and spoke some more with Dustin (he was very polite
and down to earth, btw). People kept coming up to us and were surprised to see
the drumsticks- evidently they had seen the pick hand-off, but not the
drumstick one ... Several people asked if Kris had signed the drumsticks (he
had not).
We waited patiently in line for our turn to meet Alan and
get our CDs signed- by this time, Boo was wondering, loudly (for the benefit of
those around him, I’m sure) if he would get in trouble if he was late for
school in the morning ... two of the women standing in line beside us turned to
him and said he should ask Alan for a note if he was hoping to be able to sleep
in. They were teachers, they told us, and they would know if he didn’t. It was
quite funny to see his reaction.
When it was our turn to get autographs, Boo smiled hugely
and thanked Alan for the pick, and then told him how this had been his first
concert ever, and how Great Big Sea was his favourite band. Alan was gracious
(though he seemed quite exhausted). “Thank-you, brother”, he said to Boo before
we left.
Sadly, there was no sign of Kris MacFarlane. We decided to
ask some of the venue’s staff if Kris might be around to sign the drumsticks,
but they said they figured he was already on the bus.
So we headed out to the car, taking the lane beside the building
instead of going the way we had come, as it was shorter. As we passed the back
lane behind the theatre, we saw a rather large tour bus. I didn’t need to tell
Boo what that was about! I suggested we could always knock on the door of the
bus and see if Kris was there- he was uncertain, but we decided to “go for it”.
I told him the worst that would happen was he wouldn’t be there, or they would
tell us to go away...
But Kris himself opened the door, and came out and chatted
with us for a few minutes. He was incredibly friendly, was able to accurately
guess Boo’s age (he has two sons himself), and just proved overall that he is,
in point of fact, Steve Buscemi Cool.
And yes, he signed the sticks.
Now tell me, honestly, is *any* other concert EVER going to
be able to touch that, nevermind top it?!
I don’t think so.
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